Thursday, July 28, 2011

My Thoughts

Hello and how r u?
thought to let u know my thoughts
I heard someone say this and I wanted to ask for your honest opinions...

1. Its not good for women to drink. Why? Cos it will affect them when they want to have children.
I asked: What about men? oh men, they don't have a problem. They don't go through the process of birthing a child..
Are you for real...." according to " Alcohol is bad for fertility. Too much alcohol can affect the quantity of your sperm and it can dampen your sex drive".... So hello its bad for both male and females.
2. Women don't know how to drive properly especially when they drive on roads they are not familiar with..... From research I have observed that men are not good with directions, and they will never ask until the last minute.

3. Women shouldn't sleep in till 10am they should be up and about by 7am. wow!!!!!! This one for me it depends on what kind of job or life they live. I say if you have time to sleep in please do regardless of your sex.

4. When husbands give their opinion it should not be questioned? " In a marriage do we run a dictatorship? both of them aren't they partners.

In fact the list goes on and on and then I wonder do we still have a lot of the old mentality in us...
Just yesterday I heard of a couple who were on the verge of separating ..Why cos they didn't have any children and as always it was the woman's fault.. The man's people were already on their way with the second wife, the wife that could bear the grand children.

I ask myself when will this stop?
When will everyone have equal rights?
When will mother in laws leave their daughter in laws alone and know that they do not own their destiny?
When will mothers stop pressuring their daughters to get married even when they themselves regret their marriages?
When will not having a male child stop being an issue?
When will a single woman well past the age of 30 stop being looked at as an outcast cos she isn't married with kids?

It's so sad and I must say life isn't suppose to be this way. I don't think our creator, created anyone to be oppressed by his fellow man?

It's time for change, its time we learn.

I know I will become a mother in law some day, when I do, I will never interfere in my children's marriage. It is not my place. I have lived my life, it is time for me to let them live theirs.

Do take care of yourself and have a lovely day.
P.s. Please let me know what you think.. I hope I do not sound like a feminist..LOL

Now I have to go. The photography seminar is tomorrow and Saturday and I am the one cooking. I hate cooking but oh well the things we do for love..Right now the meat is on the fire...kissing my teeth...which i could go to bed right now...loll