Saturday, January 7, 2012

Question: "Ladies Do You Wish You Were Born A Guy?

Hello everyone..
Menn!!!!! I really loved all the comments I got from my last post..
Don't worry all, we would all be a part of the change in Nigeria.

Two days ago I put up a question on my BB profile..:
Question: " Ladies do you which you were born a guy?"
And you would not believe the amount of replies I got.
Some ladies said they which they were born men. When I asked why, they told me cos its a man's world.
One actually went on to tell me that the women do everything in the home. The are subjected to cooking, taking care of the home, forgiven their husbands when he cheats on them, take rubbish from their in laws, suffer the shame of not having kids alone, suffer the fear or mistress or second or third wives etc

Some told me that they wouldn't change being a woman for anything in the world. They talked about the joy of motherhood. The joy of fashion and loving all the numerous options in the fashion world for women. Their strength, their emotions, their ability to stay strong in times of adversaries. The joy and pain of fighting for female equality etc..

hmm strong touching words if you ask me.
For me I am proud to be a women. Yes I love the fashion... hmmm we have the best options in the world.
I love the emotions..
I love the fact that we can be fierce and soft at the same time.
I love the fact that we aren't ashamed to cry when the opportunities permit it.
I love the joy of motherhood, the maternal instinct.
I love the sixth sense that our Maker has given us.
I love everything about a woman and I am proud to be one, no matter what anybody says.

N/B I haven't taken coca cola since Sunday. I am so happy. And guess what the diet stuff is back. I have succeeded in loosing 3kg, 4 more to go. Determination is the key dearies.
Do take care and have a lovely day.

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  1. I love been a woman and wouldn't wish otherwise. Way to go on getting back on track as per diet. Good for you also on your resolve to stop taking coca cola. Keep at it dear.

  2. @che thank you very much. It is fantastic being a woman.

  3. Nope...never! I love being a woman, although it's not always easy. God knows why he created me as a I wouldn't want it any other way. Being a woman has its pros and cons, and so does being a man.

  4. I love being a woman but there's a clause.
    I wish I live in an era where women didn't get judged cos they are №† married or cos they don't have kids.
    The societal,family and peer pressure on single women is too much. Even biological pressure. ‎​ℓ☺ℓ.

    I love being a woman still. Cos I can tease my way out of confusion.

  5. @sweetly broken yep God knows why HE made u a woman.
    @Franni yep I understand u. For all these to change women have to stand up and fight it as they have done in Europe and America. I am of the opinion that it is not compulsory for a woman to get married, have kids etc. She shouldn't be judged cos of all that but she should be judged cos of her capabilities.

  6. Congrats on the weight loss, this is just the beginning.

    I used to wish I were male but recently, I have been thanking God that I am a woman

  7. I can't imagine being a being a woman and all the clothing choices lol!

    Congrats on the achievement dear on the weight loss


  8. @ilola hmm I also remember a time where I wished I was a man, but not anymore.
    @J'Adore Fashion thank you

  9. I love being a woman.. girls really do run the world :)