Wednesday, December 8, 2010

True Friendship

Hello everyone and what's up?
Saying welcome to Melissa, P.E.T. Project and thank you Myne Whitman for your comments.

Recommended book: " A heart To Mend", by Myne Whitman. Will have a review of the book by next week. I just bought my copy yesterday and I am so looking forward to reading it.

Now back to the topic of today: True Friendship...

There are some friends that cross your path which you never expect, the bond you build with them usually very close and tight... I think friendship formed this way, is ordained by God..

I am saying thank you to my new friend who is also a blogger (you can check out her blog @ Thank you for being a friend.

As I talk about friendship, I remember a dear friend of mine, in fact I often said she was my best friend, mon meilleur ami... The day I heard that she was involved in an accident I cried.
That day I thought to myself: so I will never see her again.
This friend was always there for me. We were seat mates in secondary school, we both had our futures planned together. She was a shoulder to cry on and I was shoulder to lean on. We had times where we laughed, cried, played, argued and just stayed friends....

I know this may sound weird, for I had a dream and I saw her in the dream. I asked her if she was in heaven and she said yes she was, immediately an overwhelming peace filled my heart.

It sounds very funny and I am a little bit embarrassed saying it, but I just feel it is time.

I feel maybe there is someone out there who has lost someone dear. It may not be a friend, maybe a mother or a father or a brother, or a sister, I know how you feel. For this friend of mine was like a sister to me. She was my sister from another mother.

Oh Fubby as we called her, I wish you are still here with me. It's been two years now and I have never said anything about this, I have bottled it up for so long, but I feel it is time to let it go.
I feel it is time to let the world know how it hurts to loose a friend and a sister.

I believe in that dream and I know that you are in heaven.

Adieu my friend
Adieu fubby
Adieu Tata
Until we meet again


  1. I know the pain you talk about oh so well. And I know the peace too, that you feel when you KNOW they are with Jesus. It's sad when we lose those we love but even sadder when you are not sure where they are.......nice one Ibifiri.

    And thanks......for reaching friendship!

  2. Thank you. you are really a source of encouragement.

  3. Thanks for the official welcome *now taking a bow*

    I'm sorry to hear about your loss, the most important thing is the good memories you shared. may God comfort you.

  4. Thank you P.E.T. Projects. I really miss her even after 2 years.

  5. hi drop in here, feel sory about ur friend...friendship is never ending :)