Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Hurting

Hello everyone.
Big welcome to my new followers. Thank you very much and I hope you will enjoy this experience.
Anyways today I thought I should write about this after much brain cracking and checking, if you know what I mean.

I listened to Ada as she cried and told me all that he did to her.
I couldn't imagine it.
How could Jide do this to the love of his life. Wasn't he the one that was head over heels in love with her just a few days ago.
Don't get me wrong, Jide didn't physically or mentally abuse Ada it wasn't that?
It was deeper.
Jide threw their trust away. He broke his promise.
He promised, he said he will always be faithful but he didn't keep up to his bargain.
he failed.
I can still remember when Ada will come and tell me about all the things she did with Jide. All the bad things in bed and all the lovey doveyy stuff in the day.
I swear Ada showed me every gift Jide got for her and I must say he got a lot of gifts for her cos I saw stuff from shoes to bags to cloths till my eyes got tired with envy.
I can't even relate the Jide I know to the Jide I am hearing about now..
It must be wrong.
but as I looked into Ada's eyes I knew that the stories were true.
I knew that he had hurt her, for I could see the hurt in her eyes.

Ada's story isn't fiction, but real although names used are fictional.
It brings me to this question?
Why is it that the people we hurt the most are the ones we love.
Why is that the betrayal of a spouse is very hurting and painful?
Someone says it hurts to the bones.
Is it because we allow them see the most intimate part of our lives, our hearts, our secrets, our dreams?

I wish we will just try and stop it.
I wish we will just tell the demon that prompts us to hurt people to go away.

Anyways just my thought.
Do have a lovely day and I hope you enjoy reading as I enjoy posting.

3 comments:

  1. walking here with a smile. take care.. have a nice day ~ =D

    Regards,
    http://www.lonelyreload.com (A Growing Teenager Diary) ..

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  2. Pain inflicted by a loved (and trusted) one is more painful than a stab to the heart. it hurts both literally and figuratively. I feel for Ada but she should know that time heals all pains

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  3. trust is not something easily gotten. Hurting someone that way breaks their trust and makes them question themselves,their actions,decisions and all that..

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