tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post5428672806774526459..comments2023-10-25T03:38:01.480-07:00Comments on secretlilies: Bachelor PADIbifiri Kamsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03935480773984052778noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-42589952642051433252012-08-28T01:05:49.156-07:002012-08-28T01:05:49.156-07:00i think i will do what you did. cos this has gone ...i think i will do what you did. cos this has gone one forever i must say. Ibifiri Kamsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03935480773984052778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-30004704796932574082012-08-28T01:04:37.098-07:002012-08-28T01:04:37.098-07:00lol sometimes i just feel like saying "I TOLD...lol sometimes i just feel like saying "I TOLD YOU SO"Ibifiri Kamsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03935480773984052778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-81891589716631018802012-08-28T01:04:02.621-07:002012-08-28T01:04:02.621-07:00thanksthanksIbifiri Kamsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03935480773984052778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-84956662355691679182012-08-28T01:03:51.860-07:002012-08-28T01:03:51.860-07:00like i said i will try but it is not easy still st...like i said i will try but it is not easy still staying friends. thank youIbifiri Kamsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03935480773984052778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-17684150707463548012012-08-28T01:02:52.646-07:002012-08-28T01:02:52.646-07:00My dear i will try. thank.My dear i will try. thank.Ibifiri Kamsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03935480773984052778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-16466192836462834422012-08-28T01:01:57.239-07:002012-08-28T01:01:57.239-07:00Maybe will do that. thanks.Maybe will do that. thanks.Ibifiri Kamsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03935480773984052778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-58815134933998468262012-08-27T13:57:13.759-07:002012-08-27T13:57:13.759-07:00I met someone last year who sort of behaved like w...I met someone last year who sort of behaved like what you describe. I could not understand why she would come to me, talk and talk and I would try to let her see how it was madness doing the same thing over and over yet expecting a different outcome. I got so involved that the people she was having issues with began calling me every time there was a blow up as they saw me as some sort of 'emotional guarantor'. I will not lie, I got fed up and even my mgm warned me to step back cos it was clear she was not listening to a word I said to her. So I did though I keep sending her uplifting text messages just to maintain some form of contact. And like many have said, I keep her in my prayers. God will have to fix her. It's sort of like witnessing, my job is not to convert, it is to share the word. God via his Spirit has the job of winning that soul. <br /> <br />Salthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11634990424725213295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-86288466159994070362012-08-27T07:49:57.109-07:002012-08-27T07:49:57.109-07:00That is what friends are for, continue to give the...That is what friends are for, continue to give the best advice you can because frankly speaking, your love for the person will ensure you do. One thing you must never do though is say "i told you so" when the person runs into trouble for not heeding to your advice.Tiyanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13949915691811629811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-625477883806594992012-08-27T01:24:39.138-07:002012-08-27T01:24:39.138-07:00you stay and continue talking.......and praying fo...you stay and continue talking.......and praying for the person.Lucianohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04012994261394980556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-35034212885130251042012-08-26T19:05:38.914-07:002012-08-26T19:05:38.914-07:00I would say you continue being that person's f...I would say you continue being that person's friend as long as he or she is not a bad influence on you. And I recommend prayer. Even if the person will not listen to you, maybe he will listen to somehow else and get help before making an irreversible mistake. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02741175042414216760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-20796539860097258862012-08-25T12:07:33.105-07:002012-08-25T12:07:33.105-07:00i go with Mbabazi. sometimes, ppl re too blind to ...i go with Mbabazi. sometimes, ppl re too blind to see the right thing and you can even interceed for her, especially when its the same mistake...i know its not easy and i've had experiences living with such ppl but i guess you just keep loving them<br />just like we humans before God,start looking at her thru the eyes of God and i feel things will get better, for you and for her<br />thats what frnds are for i guess<br />sugarspringhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208257691198385817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-1767205794476876712012-08-25T10:09:08.392-07:002012-08-25T10:09:08.392-07:00Hello Phiti and Myne....interesting question, and ...Hello Phiti and Myne....interesting question, and great response!<br />I asked on twitter a while ago, how far do you accept people as they are?! Some people are so thoroughly spoilt, for want of a better word, but are you expected to continue to 'manage' them and their refusal to change? Balance balance balance!<br /><br />Phiri, the DNW has a great new post....your shout out reminded me of her post. Check it out.Zouzou's Musingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03596138483861315884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-23029851883575542782012-08-25T09:22:46.544-07:002012-08-25T09:22:46.544-07:00you continue to be their friend...thats how friend...you continue to be their friend...thats how friendship goes. You might ease up on the unheeded advice but play your part as a friend. Mbabazihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10882937883154254109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1422560827241634974.post-44710619355431746492012-08-24T16:36:07.945-07:002012-08-24T16:36:07.945-07:00That's a tough question, I would say keep some...That's a tough question, I would say keep some distance but not too much and keep talking. It is their life at the end of the day, maybe one day they'll learn.<br /><br />I also watch BP and I won't spoil it, but that Chris has 10 lives sef! And yeah, it's all about the money for most of them. LOL...Mynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595087387069634003noreply@blogger.com